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- El L.
- Pinole, CA
- 2 friends
- 165 reviews
Random and weird but eyes and shoes...haha
12/4/2011 -
- Fog City Girl L.
- San Francisco, CA
- 83 friends
- 67 reviews
I look at their eyes. If they make eye contact with you while you are talking and visa versa then there is some sincerity. If they don't then they are not interested in what you have to say, and I don't bother. Shoes not so much. Depending on job, shoes can vary from nice shoes to tennis shoes. Also what they say. If they talk about themselves too much I get uninterested quick. If they complain to much, same thing There needs to be some positiveness. Sometimes you can catch someone on a bad day, so it isn't how they always are. If they lend some information on how their day went, then it shows they are open to some conversation if they let you lend your experiences to it.
12/5/2011 -
- Fog City Girl L.
- San Francisco, CA
- 83 friends
- 67 reviews
Oh yeah, also their smile. If they smile when you meet them. If they smile while you talk sometimes.
12/5/2011 -
- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
I have an insta full body scan that is something I do automatically. It's like breathing, just comes naturally, and nearly impossible to stop.
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- Joe Y.
- Livermore, CA
- 91 friends
- 231 reviews
Depends: If it's a guy, do they look me in the eye and give a good handshake
If it's a girl, does she have a nice ass...12/5/2011 -
- Jenny L.
- Danville, CA
- 67 friends
- 177 reviews
Shoes....you can tell a lot about a person by shoes
12/5/2011 -
- Joe Y.
- Livermore, CA
- 91 friends
- 231 reviews
I wear shoes from Payless Shoes
What does that say about me?...12/5/2011 -
- Chatty V.
- Campbell, CA
- 126 friends
- 151 reviews
Smile, teeth, eyes. In that order.
12/5/2011 -
- Prasad P.
- San Jose, CA
- 29 friends
- 0 reviews
For me Smile.. then lips and then eyes....... if nothiing is good then i go for cleavage n boobs
12/5/2011 -
- Lib P.
- Pacifica, CA
- 29 friends
- 9 reviews
voice inflection
12/5/2011 -
- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
I personally notice when someone uses bad grammar. It's not no good to be talkin bad and shit.
Or I notice when I use a fairly commonplace word and the person looks at me sideways like a puppy because they have the vocabulary of a 3rd grader.12/5/2011 -
- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
Oh and since I've moved to the Bay and realized the emphasis many Asian women put on eyelashes(length or lack of), I notice them as well.
12/5/2011 -
- Chris H.
- Rohnert Park, CA
- 1 friend
- 46 reviews
Eyes, lips, and nails. I know #3 might sound unusual, but I do love it when women take the time to get their nails done and keep them looking great. Also, heeled boots are a plus. :-)
12/5/2011 -
- Kes D.
- San Jose, CA
- 61 friends
- 593 reviews
The way they carry themselves
Their hair
Or, if present: that they smell bad.12/5/2011 -
- V T.
- San Jose, CA
- 390 friends
- 0 reviews
Here in order
Height
Face
Eyes12/5/2011 -
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- Mike Y.
- San Francisco Bay Area, CA
- 127 friends
- 13 reviews
Nose first...then teeth
12/5/2011 -
- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
Posture? That's pretty important. Says a lot.
12/5/2011 -
- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
Oh and wedding ring
12/5/2011 -
- El L.
- Pinole, CA
- 2 friends
- 165 reviews
^ good one!
12/5/2011 -
- Sh A.
- San Jose, CA
- 133 friends
- 31 reviews
Eyes, eyelashes n smile
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- Lib P.
- Pacifica, CA
- 29 friends
- 9 reviews
thank god I never dated you when I was younger
12/7/2011 -
- Eric L.
- Daly City, CA
- 95 friends
- 44 reviews
Posture says a lot. People can mask themselves in makeup, pluck their eye brows or get their nails done but you can't hide body language.
12/7/2011 -
- maria r.
- San Jose, CA
- 8 friends
- 15 reviews
I look at shoes
12/7/2011 -
- Carmen M.
- Mountain View, CA
- 24 friends
- 92 reviews
Their smile and then their cloths!
12/7/2011 -
- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
^^^i'd notice if they were wearing cloths too! Kinda odd attire in 2011 :-)
12/7/2011 -
- Rob P.
- San Jose, CA
- 1 friend
- 8 reviews
Let's hear it for "cloths!"
12/7/2011 -
- Kes D.
- San Jose, CA
- 61 friends
- 593 reviews
Hey, it's possible around halloween, right?
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- A A.
- San Jose, CA
- 108 friends
- 4 reviews
It's different everytime..
But for guys.. I ALWAYS look at height, trapezius muscle, & if his hands/nails are atleast nice & clean.
For girls.. I look at their eyebrows, hair, & if or how much makeup they cake on.12/8/2011 -
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- Monique M.
- San Jose, CA
- 144 friends
- 79 reviews
Face & hair. Then I look at what they're wearing.
12/8/2011 -
- Carmen M.
- Mountain View, CA
- 24 friends
- 92 reviews
The way they smell! A good body scent is very sexy! Hmmmmm!
12/14/2011 -
- Rob P.
- San Jose, CA
- 1 friend
- 8 reviews
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Height, shoulders, chest, waist to leg proportion, (meat "muscles" or lack there of) eyes, voice, lips, teeth, smile and palm shape and size.
1/11/2012 -
- K G.
- Antioch, CA
- 0 friends
- 73 reviews
whether he's sporting a goatee and chin strap together. which means "run!!!"
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I'm thinking =vlookup(requirements,A:Z,ME,TRUE)
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- Peter B.
- Newark, CA
- 63 friends
- 93 reviews
Eyes? Sure, but Hips?!!!! Definitely!!! Any athlete knows this is where all your power I derived from. A girl with nice hips, will Pole Vault, quite adequately:-)
1/12/2012 -
- Peter B.
- Newark, CA
- 63 friends
- 93 reviews
^ ugh!! Stupid I-phone!!!!
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- Jamie C.
- Perth, Australia
- 330 friends
- 248 reviews
I always look at their shoes first. Then back up to their eyes.
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- Sean M.
- Sacramento, CA
- 634 friends
- 528 reviews
Oily or bad skin.
1/12/2012 -
- Ms. Y.
- Campbell, CA
- 268 friends
- 595 reviews
phew! Sean, you've got a long list. Quite observant! :)
*secretly scrubs pores and stands up straight*1/12/2012 -
- Martin B.
- San Jose, CA
- 125 friends
- 238 reviews
How far they bow down and how much they tremble in my presence.
1/12/2012 -
- Denny P.
- San Jose, CA
- 220 friends
- 30 reviews
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOBS... and a pretty smile =)
1/29/2012 -
- Veronica S.
- Sunnyvale, CA
- 526 friends
- 301 reviews
Ass, ass, ass, ass, ass, ass. Hehe.
Seriously .1/29/2012 -
- Jaime G.
- Palo Alto, CA
- 446 friends
- 106 reviews
da bootay
1/29/2012 -
- Jaime G.
- Palo Alto, CA
- 446 friends
- 106 reviews
da bootay
1/29/2012 -
- Carmen D.
- San Jose, CA
- 26 friends
- 27 reviews
On a guy the eyes, they must be colored and they HAVE to be at least 6 feet tall. And dress descent not prettyboy I like good old fashioned Levi's and a tee shirt
1/29/2012 -
- Jaime G.
- Palo Alto, CA
- 446 friends
- 106 reviews
i make sure they see my bulge in my pants !
1/29/2012 -
- Carmen D.
- San Jose, CA
- 26 friends
- 27 reviews
1/29/2012 -
- Carmen D.
- San Jose, CA
- 26 friends
- 27 reviews
On girls I notice the hair, boobs and butt and complexion ,okay and waist (I think
I was a lesbian in my previous life) ;)1/29/2012 -
- Carmen D.
- San Jose, CA
- 26 friends
- 27 reviews
And shoes! Must have clean shoes not house scrubby shoes or worked down heels yucky! Unless your in comfy gear like moi when I run errands I'm in my VS pink gear and sneakers
1/29/2012 -
- Bori G.
- San Jose, CA
- 300 friends
- 22 reviews
Eyes and then shoes. You can tell a lot about a person through their shoes. If you're wearing flip-flops and jeans you're a weenie.
2/3/2012 -
- Michael G.
- San Jose, CA
- 570 friends
- 109 reviews
Smile and butt.
2/3/2012 -
- Veronica S.
- Sunnyvale, CA
- 526 friends
- 301 reviews
If they're morbidly obese, I notice that right away too (men and women alike). Then I think "how can they let this happen to themselves?"
Or I think about gastric bypass.
I also notice dirty nails or chipped nail polish.
And ass.2/3/2012 -
- Gibson T.
- Hayward, CA
- 81 friends
- 114 reviews
hands and shoe size.
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- Jeanne H.
- Santa Clara, CA
- 14 friends
- 9 reviews
Eyes, mouth and height.
2/4/2012 -
- Dan L.
- San Jose, CA
- 71 friends
- 26 reviews
If it's a woman walking towards me...face and boobs (too close to call). If it's a guy walking towards me I check his hands to see if he has a weapon (hey gotta be safe)
If it's a woman walking away...butt (what can I say). If it's a guy walking away...nothing to see there unless he is looking back towards me2/4/2012 -
- Michael G.
- San Jose, CA
- 570 friends
- 109 reviews
Smile and toes
2/22/2012 -
- Jay D.
- Burlingame, CA
- 95 friends
- 22 reviews
If she's hot I'll first double check to make sure she doesn't have an adam's apple or large hands. I've heard too many horror stories of accidental hook ups.
2/22/2012 -
- Bill H.
- Monterey, CA
- 257 friends
- 115 reviews
2/22/2012 -
- Bryant C.
- Los Angeles, CA
- 1038 friends
- 453 reviews
teeth
2/23/2012 -
- Ms. Y.
- Campbell, CA
- 268 friends
- 595 reviews
Height, eyes
2/26/2012 -
- Michael P.
- San Jose, CA
- 373 friends
- 310 reviews
Anjali I'm tall and got amazing eyes hahaha j/k come on stop lying you notice alot more then that
2/26/2012 -
- Alecia R.
- Los Angeles, CA
- 334 friends
- 116 reviews
teeth
2/26/2012 -
- Miss H.
- San Francisco, CA
- 251 friends
- 18 reviews
How they carry themselves. Relaxed? Confident? Happy? ......etc
2/26/2012 -
In the opposite sex? Height and facial features.
Same sex: face and boobs. Hey, I'm being honest.
For both: I agree with Leanna... Level of confidence/shyness (not that there's anything wrong with being shy) is one of the first things I notice about anyone too.2/26/2012 -
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- Martin B.
- San Jose, CA
- 125 friends
- 238 reviews
First their bling.
Second are they packing?2/27/2012 -
- Sistapino S.
- Tiburon, CA
- 28 friends
- 42 reviews
lol @ martin. I say cleanliness, posture, confidence the way a man walks, and teeth, lips love them big!! Oh and fingers! I can't stand a man with short stubby hands blah! I'll pass on short hands and dirty finger nails, turn off.
lol @ Vi same sex I would say the same cleanliness, posture, all my male friends say the same2/27/2012 -
- Lars H.
- Santa Clara, CA
- 0 friends
- 0 reviews
flirty sexy eyes, boobs, waist,butt and then eyes again and the smile
at last wedding ring then the eyes again ;)2/27/2012 -
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3/15/2012
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- Sean E.
- San Jose, CA
- 26 friends
- 16 reviews
3/15/2012 -
- Loli L.
- San Francisco, CA
- 211 friends
- 1525 reviews
Teeth
3/15/2012 -
- Strong F.
- Southern California, CA
- 174 friends
- 3 reviews
in order
- toes (if she has a shoe that shows her toes), this one is un intentional (I catch myself doing that)
- shape (mainly ass)
- fingers ( also check if she has a ring)
- teeth
- eyes
- hair4/11/2012 -
- Richard J.
- San Jose, CA
- 781 friends
- 120 reviews
Brokeback mountain
4/11/2012 -
- Marco O.
- San Jose, CA
- 86 friends
- 128 reviews
her eyes and ass:)
5/10/2012 -
Eyes & smile. Make sure there's no wedding ring~
5/10/2012 -
- Marco O.
- San Jose, CA
- 86 friends
- 128 reviews
^^ I rock a wedding ring for shits & giggles, i even tell them I have 2 daughters!! LOL!
5/10/2012 -
Hahaha
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- Erica O.
- Indianapolis, IN
- 126 friends
- 39 reviews
Eyes and boobs if female...eyes and smile if male
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- Tim C.
- Los Angeles, CA
- 1594 friends
- 292 reviews
^+1 same here
5/13/2012 -
- Marco O.
- San Jose, CA
- 86 friends
- 128 reviews
damn right.. i hate having a staring contest against a woman's mustache, i never win.
5/14/2012 -
- El L.
- Pinole, CA
- 2 friends
- 165 reviews
^^^ hahaha
5/14/2012 -
- Yaj R.
- Millbrae, CA
- 42 friends
- 25 reviews
Her complexion. The skin on her face. Really her cheeks and forehead.
5/14/2012 -
- Jeff B.
- Pleasanton, CA
- 9 friends
- 5 reviews
It's all about your soul and a good kind heart. Looks come and go
5/14/2012 -
- Crissandra K.
- San Jose, CA
- 98 friends
- 38 reviews
^^ nice and very true @Jeff! Sooner or later all your left with is how you treated people and who you are inside.
5/14/2012 -
- Veronica S.
- Sunnyvale, CA
- 526 friends
- 301 reviews
Lately, I've noticed that I have been purposefully glancing to check people's ears if they're clean when I meet them for the first time...
5/14/2012 -
- Michael G.
- San Jose, CA
- 570 friends
- 109 reviews
Smile and her legs.
5/15/2012 -
Lol, V! That's disgusting.
5/15/2012 -
- Crissandra K.
- San Jose, CA
- 98 friends
- 38 reviews
Veronica I clean my ears with qtip after shower every morning. I really wish someone would check mine out and say your ears are so clean!!! Lol
5/15/2012 -
- josh l.
- Newark, CA
- 48 friends
- 14 reviews
Shoulder, waist, hip ratio.
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- Justin C.
- San Diego, CA
- 8 friends
- 34 reviews
"The first thing men notice about a woman is her eyes. Then when her eyes aren't looking, they notice her breasts" - Conan O'Brien
6/21/2012 -
- Veronica S.
- Sunnyvale, CA
- 526 friends
- 301 reviews
@ Maribel, Vi, and Crissandra - I don't know why, but I am guilty of checking out people's ears when I am within "earshot". I don't purposefully get into an angle just to see their ears, but say, when I'm next to them and they're not looking, my eyes drift to that body part AND if I don't see any hanging monkeys dangling and waiting to fall off, I feel great. If I did, ayyyyyyyyy, I'm grossed out and imagine how the rest of their body would be....
6/21/2012 -
- John B.
- Redwood City, CA
- 1 friend
- 3 reviews
You can tell a lot by a persons eyes. Anybody can buy expensive shoes.....but you can't buy eyes.
6/21/2012 -
- Janis M.
- Campbell, CA
- 166 friends
- 136 reviews
In men: Smile, Sense of humor, Intelligence (you can tell if someone is intelligent just by the way they carry themselves/hold a conversation), confidence. Oh and the way he laughs... I don't know, but the laugh can be a deal breaker for me (even though I have a weird laugh myself). Ew.
In women: Clothes, sense of fashion, and then, of course, the bum. Mmmhhhmmm.6/21/2012 -
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- Janay C.
- San Jose, CA
- 26 friends
- 13 reviews
Teeth
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- Stephanie P.
- Cleveland, OH
- 0 friends
- 0 reviews
For Men: I look at his smile first. If his smile is genuine, I will look into his eyes and engage in conversation.
I don't really judge people on what they wear or how their shoes look. I'll throw on a jogging suit and tennis shoes real quick, if I'm in a hurry or not going anywhere important (like the grocery store). That doesn't mean I have no sense of style.6/22/2012 -
- Michael G.
- San Jose, CA
- 570 friends
- 109 reviews
Eyes,smile,legs
6/22/2012 -
- Dean V.
- Sunnyvale, CA
- 2 friends
- 33 reviews
in business: eyes, watch and shoes
personal: smile, eyes and body language
while driving: eyes, and hands and the direction of their wheels6/22/2012 -
- C.J. A.
- San Jose, CA
- 798 friends
- 60 reviews
i notice there smile!
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