Please help me with this situation. My girlfriend off and on for about 10 years now gave her telephone number to this guy a her job. This is how it went down and this is straight from her mouth. This guy asked for her number before and to take her out and she told him she had a boyfriend. Then, later in the week he comes back and asks her out again and she claims she told him she has a boyfriend that lives with her. Finally, she gives this dude her number. We talked about the situation. I told her that the guy is being disrespectful already and if he really was just trying to be her friend he wouldn't have asked her out first. Then after the fact that you told him you had a boyfriend he asks you out again like he doesn't remember you told him you had one earlier in the week. Still she gives him her number. I told her a guy doesn't ask a girl out on a date if he isn't trying to get some. He's not just trying to be your friend. To me it'll be different if they met on different terms. A guy just doesn't gather himself to ask a girl out to just be her friend. Even after I told her how I feel about the situation she still persists to text and talk to this guy in our home. The first time she talked to him she tried to act like she was going to the closet to see something so I get up to see where she went and find her on the phone with the guy. Later I asked if you and this guy are just trying to be friends why did you get up and go into another room to talk to him. She claims that she was just looking for something in the closet. Then I took a nap yesterday and wake up to her on the phone in another room with this guy. She gets off the phone after a minute or so and proceeds to try to kiss me and flirt with me. I think thats just actions of guilt and she does that everytime she gets off the phone with this guy. If I don't laugh or respond to her flirting then she feels that there is something wrong with me or I'm being mean. Please Help. What should I do?
