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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

2 days ago I wrote a two star review for Ocean Avenue Books - afterwards the owner started sending me crazy and threatening emails. Tonight I get a knock at my front door - I open it and a woman tries to force her way in and I had to wrestle with her on my front steps. Finally I was able to shut the door and call 911 - the police showed up and took her away. Turns out it was the business owner! How did she get my address???????

I'm now completely freaked out - need to go to the police station tomorrow and get a restraining order
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Buy a few handguns keep one in a drawer near the front door, one in your kitchen, one in your bathroom, one under your mattress where you lay your head (you can reach for it easily).  You NEVER know where someone will attack you. I also keep a machete next to the bed.
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11/1/2009 Pretty P. says:

I sleep with a gun.  Anyone break into my house and I'll blow their fucking brains out.
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11/1/2009 A P. says:

this sounds like a made up story.
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11/1/2009 Kelly "Mia" G. says:

I find this hard to believe..sorry but how could she find your home address...???
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Sean, you may need to go to the police station to pick up the paperwork or you may be able to print it from the city's website, but it is the judge who will issue a restraining order.

Also, you are not elite so why are you using your real first name.  Maybe it is time to make up a fake name or just use initials and a nickname.

Good luck.
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11/1/2009 mel g. says:

Keep one in a cereal box like on "Kill Bill".
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11/1/2009 Tyrone "I think you betta call" B. says:

Ha-ha!

Too bad for you...
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

I have no idea how she found my home address - thats what is so scary. I do have a handgun but fortunately I didn't have it nearby or else I would have probably shot her. How was she even able to find me without my last name being visable??

I did report her harassing email to yelp and they suspended her user account.
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Also, the owner says you've been drunk and surly in her store.  She seems calm and rational while your posts seem crazed and frantic.

It also is in violation of the TOS to ask people to write a review of a business that YOU don't like, if we have never patronized the same business.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Two threads are probably overdoing it.  

I would suggest everyone get out their pitchforks and fire, and be prepared to storm the castle.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

And all you people who think this is funny - it's NOT - someone cold have been seriously hurt or killed tonight. Fortunately she didn't have a weapon. I was seriously fighting for my life with this woman.

I've only been in her store twice - never bought anything or even said anything to her beyond a simple hello. I have no idea how she found where I live
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

I've never been drunk or surley in her store - here are some examples of the PMs she sent me
"hey -- I just read it. Why don't you come in here and say it to my face? Are you too much of a coward?"

"What's the problem, why are you writing so many mean things? Do you not have a girlfriend? are you divorced? I can see why...."

"world of pain.
well you sure spread pain to others.

You are too much of a pussy to come in here and speak to me directly.

Goodbye pussy boy and I will be contacting your employers."

"I've been thinking about it.

The problem is -- You're not very bright.

You are a stupid person, and that's wjhy you do so many stupid things.

You have a stupid looking face,. too.

You look like an idiot."

"I don't want to be on yelp. I've asked them to take me off of it but they laughed at me and made fun of me while tears poured down my cheeks.  You are an idiot who doesn't know anything about life and bI can tell by the way you write that you grew up in a bad family. Your mom was a bitch and she didn't teach you how to behave, that's why your life is such a mess right now. You are low class - you look it. You look like trash."
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Are you as drunk now as when you went to the book store?
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

s "mourning the loss of a beloved yelp friend" r. says:

Also, the owner says you've been drunk and surly in her store.  She seems calm and rational while your posts seem crazed and frantic.

It also is in violation of the TOS to ask people to write a review of a business that YOU don't like, if we have never patronized the same business.

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Whaat? Who th F are you? The f'n Yelp police? How would you even know that about her. And since when does being drunk in someone's store make it ok for the owner to track you down and accost you at your house?
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Sean, I did see your other thread.

This is a matter for the police and the courts who will, if they see just cause, issue a restraining order which you will then have to have served on her.  

In the meantime, you may want to close your account for your safety, after you have made copies of your review and all of her comments and any communication you have had with yelp HQ.

Good luck.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Did she also leave a bag of dog poo that she set on fire?

That's the best way to get back at people.
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

+opens switch blade+
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

I'm going to agree with S, it is inappropriate to ask people to a review a place they have never been to, just based on your supposed experience with the business.

If she is really threatening you, let the police handle it.  

This is not the thread you are looking for.
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11/1/2009 David O. says:

Stop Reading books!
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11/1/2009 Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Sean C. says:

And all you people who think this is funny - it's NOT - someone cold have been seriously hurt or killed tonight.
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Yeah people, almost getting beat up by a girl is not funny.
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11/1/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

This is even better than teh pizza giant.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

I printed all the PMs she sent me and gave them to the police officer - did Yelp somehow giver her my address? They took her to jail and will try to put a 72 hour psychiatric hold but they said it's up to the doctor that examines her.
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

"Also, the owner says you've been drunk and surly in her store.  She seems calm and rational while your posts seem crazed and frantic."
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Um, seriously? What kind of "calm and rational" business owner sends a Yelper 8 threatening messages that are harassment and calls a customer a pussy and stupid and then claims he was drunk, when Yelper Sean C. has no photo!!! How could she possibly know who he is when he came into her store?

A normal, level-headed person doesn't send EIGHT threatening and harassing messages to a person, spread lies that he was drunk and abusive in her store, and then show up at his RESIDENCE and has to be escorted away by the police! That doesn't sound like a normal person!!!
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

S and Pam are idiots
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

He says she sent him EIGHT threatening and harassing messages.  I'm quite skeptical.

Responding by posting the business owner's email in your review of her, not her store, is inappropriate.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"I'm going to agree with S, it is inappropriate to ask people to a review a place they have never been to, just based on your supposed experience with the business."

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And where did I ask people to do this?????

THIS ISN'T FUNNY OR A JOKE!
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Pam "Quadtastic" B. says:

I'm going to agree with S, it is inappropriate to ask people to a review a place they have never been to, just based on your supposed experience with the business.
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When did Sean ever say he did that?? He just reported what happened and copied and pasted the emails she sent him. He never said people should make a review, at least not on this talk thread.

What kind of business owner shows up at someone's home to harass them and is then taken to the psycho ward?!!!!!
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

And whats really scary is that she FOUND WHERE I LIVE!!!  this could conceivably happen to anybody who posts on yelp!
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11/1/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

I know it wasn't what you intended but I really want to go to this store.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Fine, I retract what I said about asking on the thread, but I still don't believe this is true.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"What kind of business owner shows up at someone's home to harass them and is then taken to the psycho ward?!!!!!"

She didn't just try to harass me - she tried to FORCE HER WAY IN MY HOUSE!!  It seriously took all my strength to get her out - I didn't know if she had a weapon. She is a bigger lady and was pretty strong for her size
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Sean C. says:
THIS ISN'T FUNNY OR A JOKE!
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Trust me, it funny as hell.
Especially the part where you almost got your ass kicked by a girl.
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11/1/2009 Pretty P. says:

this is obviously bullshit
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

For all that think that this is bullshit can PM me for the police report number
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Sean, the first three words of your thread title are as follows "Leave Negative Review".

It sounds like you are telling anyone who reads your thread to leave a negative review.

Also, if this woman doesn't know you and you say you've only said hello to her, then how does she know your name, much less where you live?  If you bought something from her with a credit card, sure I can see how she got you name, but you said that was not so.  It just doesn't add up the way you tell your story.

Regardless, I do wish you well.  If this woman attacked you, and it was unprovoked, the judge will side with you.

That's all I have to offer.  Good luck at the court tomorrow.
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11/1/2009 Janice "Lurker" G. says:

I think it's because the title of this thread is "Leave Negative Review-..." so people might think that you are asking them to leave a negative review. Did you mean, "I left a negative review-..."?
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11/1/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

I think you should move. Stay at a hotel tonight and then pack up all your shit tomorrow.
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11/1/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

OMG
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

Pam, this thread isn't for you
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Why would Sean bother to write all this if it weren't true???? Why would he take the time and copy and paste her emails? The owner Diane emailed me too and is obviously psycho.

I understand that it's cute to pick on a guy because a "girl" tried to beat him up, but this is different---we're talking about a strong, grown woman who showed up possibly armed at his residence. That is called stalking and harassment. Anyone, male or female, should be freaked out by that!!!
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

Yeah, why would someone make this up.

I think it's pretty strange some people would discount this with no proof either way.
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

"Leave negative review" as this talk thread's title--now I know why people said that!! I never interpreted it that way. I thought it was "I left a negative review and look what happened"--Sean wasn't telling anyone to do anything! He was commenting on himself--as in "I leave a negative review, psycho shows up."
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"I think it's because the title of this thread is "Leave Negative Review-..." so people might think that you are asking them to leave a negative review. Did you mean, "I left a negative review-..."?"
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yes thats what I meant to write - I was a bit excited form all the comotion - sorry for the confustion
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"I think you should move. Stay at a hotel tonight and then pack up all your shit tomorrow."

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I own my home - not going to move because of this
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

If a girl almost kicked my ass I'd definitely NOT start a thread about it.
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11/1/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

That's the problem.  It's so fucked up it's not believable.

But crazier shit has happened.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"Also, if this woman doesn't know you and you say you've only said hello to her, then how does she know your name, much less where you live?  If you bought something from her with a credit card, sure I can see how she got you name, but you said that was not so.  It just doesn't add up the way you tell your story."
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I've been in her store twice and never spoke to her or made a purchase - THATS WHATS SO FREAKY ABOUT THIS!
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11/1/2009 Lauren "isn't bad, she's just drawn that way" Q. says:

Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Buy a few handguns keep one ... in your bathroom...

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NO! You never store firearms in the bathroom. The moisture is bad for them, and causes corrosion, so they don't work properly...

Everywhere else is fair game, though. :)
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

Lance "On a Sunday mornin sidewalk......." G. says:

If a girl almost kicked my ass I'd definitely NOT start a thread about it.

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Hey Lance, ever had a girl put a loaded shotgun to your head?  Doesn't really matter what sex they are.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

ok I pm'd you for the report number. I have 6 friends on the SFPD 4 of them in that district. I can find out in five minutes if this story is true or not
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Sean, if what you are saying is true, please do be the first person in line to file your restraining order tomorrow and request that due to the circumstances (that you've relayed here and reported to the police) it be expedited to the judge ASAP.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

It seems a little far fetched to be believable, perhaps that's why many are not.

Also, the fact that not one but two threads were started over this also doesn't help the cause.
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Problem solved--Diana will report to us!!
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11/1/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

: Also, the fact that not one but two threads were started over this also doesn't help the cause.

And how many threads were started about Kozy Kar?
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11/1/2009 Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Lance, why you gotta be a copycat?
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

I called a buddy with the info. Sorry but he hasn't heard of that officer. He said it could be possible that it's one of the three new officers, but the name didn't ring a bell at all. Also, he couldn't find anything under the report number in the PM.
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

oooh Cabrona got connections. Me likey.
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11/1/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

Maybe the owner read a book from her store on how to stalk and track down people. To find out all that personal information about you in 2 days is pretty crazy...

Since I really don't have a reason not to believe you, all I can say is change your yelp name for the time being! Crazies tend to hang with crazies.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Kozy Kar got out of control.  It wasn't the same thread by the same person twice.
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11/1/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

this thread smells.
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

I called a buddy with the info. Sorry but he hasn't heard of that officer. He said it could be possible that it's one of the three new officers, but the name didn't ring a bell at all. Also, he couldn't find anything under the report number in the PM.
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Thanks, Diana. But considering this just happened like an hour ago, the report may not even be in their computer or accessible records yet. Also, SFPD is a huge jurisdiction with thousands of cases a week. It's not like it's the small city of Brisbane. So this is so recent--this happened tonight!
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

But it's broken down into sections, each section has beat cops which patrol those areas. They have different offices in each area.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

They also don't switch around much either. If I call the soma office to report a crime in the tl, they give you the number to the tl office.
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11/1/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

crazy talk
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Sorry Thomass, I thought it was worth repeating.
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11/1/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

But it's broken down into sections, each section has beat cops which patrol those areas. They have different offices in each area.
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True...but I remember when I had to call the police about this crazy man who was following me around the city it took a really long time for the police report to be in the system. When I called to follow up they didn't know what the hell I was talking about =/
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11/1/2009 Brandon "Support your local business owner" M. says:

Why do I feel safer in Texas?
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Also, when it's first called in to the operator, it's in the system, it gets recorded, there would be SOMETHING in a report SOMEWHERE by now.
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

Yeah cause SFPD is really organized and on top of everything.
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Diana--talk to your friends at SFPD again, maybe tomorrow (if you care enough!). Again, this just happened like an hour ago. It will take a while for it to appear in the computer or have a record of it.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Well, I am kind of over it. But my friend said he'd poke around again tomorrow and let me know. Either way I still stick to my original post about keeping hand guns all over the house because you never know WHERE you will be attacked.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

And if you have kids, just keep the safety on. That should be plenty safe
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11/1/2009 Jessica V. says:

You spelled "bagel" wrong.
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

Yeah causer kids never figure out how to take the safety off.
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This post violated the Yelp Terms of Service and has been removed.

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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

Yeah causer kids never figure out how to take the safety off.
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And I'm sure if they're at least 5 yrs old, you just explain to them ONCE not to point it at themselves or their friends and pull the trigger, they will never do it.
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Friggin' Jewsica.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Hell, don't even bother explaining, I'm sure they'll just know by looking at a gun that it's not safe to touch. Kids are really smart these days.
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

Ya sure Diana
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11/1/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

yeah, Diana...you're being sarcastic though right?
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Yeah show them a Bugs Bunny cartoon and show them how Elmer Fudd uses his shotgun to kill cute innocent bunnies. They will make the connection and never touch them. True story.
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11/1/2009 Jessica V. says:

Tampons are probably much better for taking a self-defense class than a pad would be. Less leakage.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

oh please, I can't think of anything more saturated in sarcasm. I was almost positive the sarcasm had seeped into every pore of those posts, but I see some of you need it spelled out
IT WAS A JOKE
KIDS ARE STUPID
GUNS ARE DANGEROUS
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11/1/2009 Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

You really know kids Diana
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

Diana says some dumb shit so you can never tell
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

I don't get it.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

Diana is normally not serious I figured you'd figured it out.
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

So far I've learned that Sean is intimidated by girls and Diana wants to arm children.

This thread is awesome, what else you guys got?
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

I'm all for everyone being armed... with love
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

And slingshots.
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11/1/2009 Diana "Wholesome, Muchacha Sucia!" G. says:

I had a slingshot growing up. But it broke... not before I killed a few pigeons and lizards though. My poor poor parents.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Don't start kids with this, they'll want to shoot everything

http://www.skymall.com...
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11/1/2009 Denise J. says:

#1 Make a police incidence report
#2 Get a restraining order
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11/1/2009 Lauren "isn't bad, she's just drawn that way" Q. says:

My cat killed a hummingbird.... I should probably be upset, but I'm mostly just impressed. Can't figure out how she got the damn thing.
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11/1/2009 Rebecca "I feel a change coming on" C. says:

27 minutes ago Sean C. says:

"Also, if this woman doesn't know you and you say you've only said hello to her, then how does she know your name, much less where you live?  If you bought something from her with a credit card, sure I can see how she got you name, but you said that was not so.  It just doesn't add up the way you tell your story."
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I've been in her store twice and never spoke to her or made a purchase - THATS WHATS SO FREAKY ABOUT THIS!

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In your reviews you mention your neighborhood, and if that's really your first name and last initial, it probably wouldn't be too hard to do a search on a website like http://whitepages.com and narrow the results down to your neighborhood to track you down.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

Well I don't care if you people believe me or not - I'm just telling you all what happened to me. I don't know how she found my address - I don't remember giving Yelp an address when i signed up and I don't have my real pic here either - yelp does ask for a home location for searching nearby businesses but I just cant see anybody being able to get that information.

I'm disapointed that most poeple posting here are not as outraged as they should be
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"In your reviews you mention your neighborhood, and if that's really your first name and last initial, it probably wouldn't be too hard to do a search on a website like http://whitepages.com and narrow the results down to your neighborhood to track you down."
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But white pages needs a last name - my phone number is unlisted
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11/1/2009 Jessica V. says:

Sean C. says:

I'm disapointed that most poeple posting here are not as outraged as they should be
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You sure expected a lot from us, didn't you?
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11/1/2009 Lanette Jane "Just Jane" S. says:

@Jessica - does it count if I am outraged by his disappointment in us?
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Why should we be outraged?  

Also, I wouldn't go pointing fingers to say that Yelp released an address, they don't ask for one.
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Outraged?  Hell no, I'm entertained.

So what's it like to get punked by a girl?
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11/1/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

Well I don't care if you people believe me or not - I'm just telling you all what happened to me. I don't know how she found my address - I don't remember giving Yelp an address when i signed up and I don't have my real pic here either - yelp does ask for a home location for searching nearby businesses but I just cant see anybody being able to get that information.

I'm disapointed that most people posting here are not as outraged as they should be
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well, if this is true, what a frighting experience.  this is very serious and completely inappropriate.  did she have your email?
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11/1/2009 Ki C. says:

It's funny how everything happened within a couple days.. You wrote the review on the 29th updated it on the 31st and today is the 1st.
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Hay Dios mio
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Did you buy anything with a credit card?
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"well, if this is true, what a frighting experience.  this is very serious and completely inappropriate.  did she have your email?"
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Didn't have my e-mail - she did PM me a bunch of times (see above) and I reported her to yelp and they deactivated her account
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Ki C. says:

It's funny how everything happened within a couple days.. You wrote the review on the 29th updated it on the 31st and today is the 1st.
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That's because the store owner is a psychotic, unstable freak who got arrested for harassing and stalking a Yelper and is now being held in the psycho ward!

This is way many of us don't have our real pic up!
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"Did you buy anything with a credit card?"
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No - only have been in the business twice and never made a purchase - never said anything to her except maybe a "hello"
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11/1/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

did she follow you home?  scary.
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11/1/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

That's a lot of effort over a negative Yelp review.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"did she follow you home?  scary."

How would she even know who I was? I was home today since about 3pm - took a nap and then was watching the ball game when she knocked on the door at a little after 6pm.

Maybe the police will have some more info for me tomorrow on how she found me
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Sean C. says:

No - only have been in the business twice and never made a purchase - never said anything to her except maybe a "hello"
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So if Sean anonymously walked in and barely said anything to the owner, she can't possibly know who he is ESPECIALLY since he has no "real" photo of him on here.

You can infer that someone on Yelp who has a real photo looks just like someone who was in your store yesterday. But for Sean to be anonymous and have someone claim he was a customer in particular is just silly.
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

First of all, you shouldn't care what any of us think.  If you've been attacked all that matters is that you are safe and that she is under psychiatric evaluation soon.  Screw what anyone else thinks.

I never think it is funny when someone has been attacked, male or female.  It also doesn't matter to me if the attacker was male or female.

Some things just don't add up, and I'm not just talking about the woman finding out your name and home when you say you don't know her and never purchased anything from her.

I'm wondering why you opened your door to a stranger?  

I'm wondering why, once you opened the door, you then went outside on the steps where you claim you were fighting for your life with her?

If you opened your door because you recognized who was there, why?  This woman apparently sent you some crazy email.
Why open your door to a nutcase like that.

These are some of the things that don't make sense.

The police probably asked you the same questions, right?  The judge may ask, as well.

It's called keeping an open mind and not rushing to judgement.  Trying to look at all possible angles.
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11/1/2009 squinka "All chaps are assless. "assless chaps" is de trop" c. says:

book learnin always leads to evil. Never enter any room where they got readin or writin goin on. Books are the tools of satan.

The devil gave that woman your phone number. Stop Reading. Stop Writing.

NOW!!! it's probably too late. get off yelp while you can, brother ooooohhhh nnnooooooo
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Perhaps you should stop going into her store drunk all of the time?
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11/1/2009 Magdelyn "You've been designated for termination." P. says:

Perhaps you two should kiss and make up.  You don't like the type of book store she runs.  Go to Barnes & Noble - they are very clean and I am sure they don't have a travel guide from 1982.  On the other hand, some poeple who love books don't necessarily want to go into a place that is ready for prime time.  Sometimes, we like to go into eccentric, weird little nooks.  Give the lady a break.  Give her three stars, and say it's not your kind of place.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

I'm wondering why you opened your door to a stranger?  

I'm wondering why, once you opened the door, you then went outside on the steps where you claim you were fighting for your life with her?

If you opened your door because you recognized who was there, why?  This woman apparently sent you some crazy email.
Why open your door to a nutcase like that.
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I  shouldn't have opened the door - we dont have a peephole - I looked out my bedroom window and thought it was my neighbor from across the street.

I didn't go outside on the steps - as soon as I opened the door she immediately tried to force her way in - I was able to push her outside and was trying to pin her down incase she had a weapon. finally I was able to get the door shut and locked
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11/1/2009 Pretty P. says:

She's probably reading this now, plotting your murder.  I would be careful what I said.
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11/1/2009 Scotty "SAUCE" D. says:

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11/1/2009 squinka "All chaps are assless. "assless chaps" is de trop" c. says:

and yes, demon alcohol, along with the evil book readin is always deadly. ask william burroughs.

actually that woman might have been william burroughs. Did she say she was looking for a publisher before she tried to kill you?
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Squink!
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

I'm sorry I didn't clarify that I wasn't asking you to answer the questions.  Nothing seems less sensitive than to ask someone who has been attacked to "prove it."  I was just letting you know some of the questions that popped into my head, questions I know the judge and police will/have ask(ed).

File that paperwork tomorrow morning.  Get before the judge before as soon as possible so you can have her served.  You may want to begin your search for someone to serve the papers for you or you can have the Sheriff do it for a fee.
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

When I think of alcohol and book, I think Bukowski.
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11/1/2009 Your Lord G. says:

Sean, my advice to you (if you want to get Yelpers behind you on this) is to get breast implants, take a picture of them, and post that as your profile picture. It worked for Megan and her crusade against Kozy Kar.
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11/1/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

s "mourning the loss of a beloved yelp friend" r. says:

When I think of alcohol and book, I think Bukowski.
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that's chinaski to you missy.
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11/1/2009 Luke "Suge's Pretentious Lover" A. says:

hmmmm
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"I'm sorry I didn't clarify that I wasn't asking you to answer the questions.  Nothing seems less sensitive than to ask someone who has been attacked to "prove it."  I was just letting you know some of the questions that popped into my head, questions I know the judge and police will/have ask(ed).

File that paperwork tomorrow morning.  Get before the judge before as soon as possible so you can have her served.  You may want to begin your search for someone to serve the papers for you or you can have the Sheriff do it for a fee."
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Yes going to 400 MacAllister first thing tomorrow to get an Ex Parte restraining order - the police said they would serve her for free - easy to do since she will still be in jail
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11/1/2009 squinka "All chaps are assless. "assless chaps" is de trop" c. says:

I am every bit as invested in this crusade as I was in the grand Kozy Kar ruination of 09.

boobies are always nice, but not necessary for thread thwackin. thwack on, seanie!
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11/1/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Alan "Piston Honda" Y. says:

s "mourning the loss of a beloved yelp friend" r. says:

When I think of alcohol and book, I think Bukowski.
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11/1/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

indeed.
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11/1/2009 Mike Z. says:

This is some funny shit. I wish I'd thought of it.
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11/1/2009 squinka "All chaps are assless. "assless chaps" is de trop" c. says:

Bookowski would have been more to the drunken literary point than the opiated poet burroughs. excellent point.
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

This has "Teh Pizza Delivery Giant" written all over it.
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11/1/2009 Mike Z. says:

I'm calling Diane at Ocean Ave. books tomorrow, announcing that I am Sean C  and apologizing for all the trouble I have caused.  That should be a good way to suss out the validity of this story.
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11/1/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

Sean C. says:

I own my home - not going to move because of this
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You're digging your own grave. Get a rottweiler or something.
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11/1/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

She won't be there since she was arrested today for harassment and stalking! She's in jail....
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

Joe bookowski.
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

Is sillygirl Sean?
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11/1/2009 Mike Z. says:

That's the point you silly girl you.
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

Go silly
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11/1/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Joe "Pickles" G. says:

The book stalker.
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11/1/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

Sean C. says:

I'm disapointed that most poeple posting here are not as outraged as they should be
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I'm completely outraged! I think it's a Kill or be killed type situation, you know what you have to do.
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This post violated the Yelp Terms of Service and has been removed.

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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"You're digging your own grave. Get a rottweiler or something."

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Yeah a rottweiler would be a good idea - meanwhile I'm going to be armed when answering my door
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11/1/2009 Cooter "i thought of something funny to write and forgot" C. says:

This is why I go by cooter.

also, why i rarely leave negative reviews. i'm more interested in constructive criticism.
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

You might need to take stronger measures.
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

"also, why i rarely leave negative reviews. i'm more interested in constructive criticism."

My original review wasn;t even that negative(two stars) - I just said the place was messy and needed a good cleaning and reorganizing - I guess that was enough to send her over the edge
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11/1/2009 Dru "SWM seeks SAF for watersports" P. says:

Frankly I am surprised you got your ass kicked considering how big you are.  I am also a bit confused how you got your head out the front door to talk to this woman.  Are you holding your breath in that picture?
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11/1/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

Frankly I am surprised you got your ass kicked considering how big you are.  I am also a bit confused how you got your head out the front door to talk to this woman.  Are you holding your breath in that picture?
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I guess thats how is was easy for her to find me - the guy with the big blue head
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11/1/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

Sean C. says:

I'm going to be armed when answering my door
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Shoot first ask questions later, she may send friends.
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11/1/2009 Cooter "i thought of something funny to write and forgot" C. says:

Eh, who knows then.

Like I said, this is why I go by Cooter. My name is one of a kind and I sure as hell am not going to post it out there on teh innerwebs for anyone to see.
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11/1/2009 Mike Z. says:

When I call and ask for Diane, I am going to ask if she has this book in stock:

http://www.amazon.com/...
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11/1/2009 Janice "Lurker" G. says:

This has nothing to do with this thread but is your wife OK with you sending compliments to women on yelp about their boobie pictures?
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Stalking Cooter = Bad idea.
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11/1/2009 Mike Z. says:

Haha, Janice, that is some quality compliment stalking.  How do you know Sean is married though?
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11/1/2009 Lance "Lancehole" G. says:

Oh damn Janice!

*wipes beer off of monitor*
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11/1/2009 Mike Z. says:

Oh never mind Janice. Yeah she gets a lot of play in his reviews.
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11/1/2009 Cooter "i thought of something funny to write and forgot" C. says:

stalking me is damn near impossible as I have three fiercely loyal dog friends with me at all times, in addition to a variety of weapons that will kill you dead.

did i mention i live in a CCW 'shall issue' state? yeah...
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11/1/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

posting your correspondence with her sent her over the edge.  I'm not justifying her behavior.  unbelievable, this crazy world.
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11/1/2009 Dru "SWM seeks SAF for watersports" P. says:

What are the chances of talking you into a celebrity death match with Mad TV's Ms. Swan?
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11/1/2009 Megan "mama tried" D. says:

1 hour ago Your Lord G. says:

Sean, my advice to you (if you want to get Yelpers behind you on this) is to get breast implants, take a picture of them, and post that as your profile picture. It worked for Megan and her crusade against Kozy Kar
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Hi Mister J
Now that you claim to be my Lord, you should know damn good and well that these breasts were natural gifts from you.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

If it were me I'd hire teh pizza delivery giant and for protection
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11/2/2009 Miles "Farmer Ted" F. says:

This is precisely why I don't slam places in reviews, just don't need to deal with this or even the possibility of this.
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11/2/2009 Suge K. says:

"I'm disapointed that most poeple posting here are not as outraged as they should "

well, in my defense, i told cliff that i was really really tired and asked if he would be outraged for me. totally not there for me.
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11/2/2009 Suge K. says:

mike, have you called diane yet?
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11/2/2009 Robert "hebrew rocker" H. says:

Modern day Teh pizza delivery giant
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11/2/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

Sean, when she gets out, go down there with a couple of crazy family members and beat the shit out of the crazy bitch!  AND I hope the crazy bitch reads this post and comes to my house.  I got a house full of crazy mothafuckas over here and we would dust the bitch straight off.
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11/2/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

I just got back form filing the restraining order papers - need to go back this afternoon and pick them up and then to the Sheriff's office to have them serve her while she is still in custody
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11/2/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

OMG
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11/2/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

Sean, definitely have her served in custody.  Once they get out, it can become very difficult and expensive.

noel, that two OMGs in one thread.
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11/2/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

^that's two OMGs

*goes to kitchen to get more caffeine*
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11/2/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

what can one say?  this depredation is unheard of.  i can't imagine the terror that sean felt.
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11/2/2009 Suge K. says:

mike??? did you call the store? i think if diane is NOT there, it will stop people from thinking this is a fake story...
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11/2/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

Call the store yourself
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

Store is supposed to open at 10.  I just called the number and it rang about 20 times before I gave up.  So there's a data point.  

Also, yesterday, I googled Ocean Ave Books and one of the very first things that pops up is "BOYCOTT OCEAN AVENUE BOOKS"  I think that thread is gone now, but if she saw that in her google results, frankly I could imagine her being pissed off enough to hunt our boy Sean down and try to kill him.  

I'm going with: Story is legit.
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

^I was just kidding about the try to kill him part...
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11/2/2009 Suge K. says:

FUCKED UP!

wow! i also wonder how she found out who you are. but i HIGHLY doubt yelp gave your address because they probably don't have it. maybe she read your reviews and figured out who you are?

i hope she gets treatment. sounds like a psychopath.
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11/2/2009 Cliff B. says:

Suge K. says:

"I'm disapointed that most poeple posting here are not as outraged as they should "

well, in my defense, i told cliff that i was really really tired and asked if he would be outraged for me. totally not there for me.
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You told me I had no chance at banging you so i stopped caring.
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11/2/2009 Sean "Don't come to my house uninvited" C. says:

wow! i also wonder how she found out who you are. but i HIGHLY doubt yelp gave your address because they probably don't have it. maybe she read your reviews and figured out who you are?
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I dont think Yelp your give out an address either - I've sent Yelp a message asking them to contact me but havent heard anything. I dont kn ow how she could infer who I am or where I live from my reviews. This is a city of over 700,000 people!! She must me psychic as well as psycho
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11/2/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

I don't know if Suge's voice is deep enough to claim she's you, Sean.

Do they really keep first-time offenders (for allegedly stalking) in custody overnight?   My guess is that the jails would have been full from Halloween and they wouldn't have had room, and if it was true, released her on her own recognizance.
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11/2/2009 Cliff B. says:

Mike Z. says:

Store is supposed to open at 10.  I just called the number and it rang about 20 times before I gave up.  So there's a data point.  

Also, yesterday, I googled Ocean Ave Books and one of the very first things that pops up is "BOYCOTT OCEAN AVENUE BOOKS"  I think that thread is gone now, but if she saw that in her google results, frankly I could imagine her being pissed off enough to hunt our boy Sean down and try to kill him.  

I'm going with: Story is legit.
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HOLY COW! Mike Z. is right. That does show up in a google search. Wow, that is very unfair to that business.

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11/2/2009 squinka "All chaps are assless. "assless chaps" is de trop" c. says:

um Mike, the "boycott Ocean Avenue Books" comes up from that incredibly reliable news source Fox I mean Yelp and was a direct response to Sean. As to her not coming in today- after reading this crap- would you?

Whether, she's guilty or not, I'd hate to go to trial in yelptown.
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11/2/2009 TJ D. says:

Didn't you know that when a business becomes a yelp sponsor, yelp sends them weekly reports of all bad reviews plus background reports and account details of the reviewers?
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

ferreals squinkety.  judge, jury and executioner.
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11/2/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

It's her fault for being a psycho who calls customers pussy boy and threatens him with 8 emails and shows up to his house!
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

Didn't Sillygirl actually start that Boycott thread?

I'd keep my doors locked if I were you Silly.
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11/2/2009 Cliff B. says:

oh no! Squinka the Executioner! This does not bode well for us.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

: Wow, that is very unfair to that business.

Silly review, but stupid move by the business owner to call him a drunk and harass him via e-mail.  

I know people love the business owner comments, but in the hands of a "off" business owner, it just becomes a dangerous tool in the piss-fest.   Yelp should really consider letting users moderate the business owner comments and flag when they appear slanderous and inflammatory.  The owner can then bitch to Yelp HQ if they feel it's unfair.  

Sometimes people just need to be called on their bullshit and take a timeout.  Business owners included.
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11/2/2009 Janice "Lurker" G. says:

There is a button to flag business owner comments.
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11/2/2009 squinka "All chaps are assless. "assless chaps" is de trop" c. says:

I call everybody pussy boy.

  what?
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

Wow, there is definitely a great news story here.

Headline:  "Business Owner Decides She's Taken Enough Crap; Flips out and Tries to Murder Yelper"  

I can see that in the Chronicle.  Or The Onion.
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

squinks, do you say it like Arnold Schwarzenegger would?
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Or Eater SF
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Next comment by business owner:

"How do you like me now, pussy boy?"
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: There is a button to flag business owner comments.

Whoa...my bad.   Is that new or did I just not notice it before?

By flagging that comment, you'd be doing the business owner a favor, which I'm not eager to do at this point.
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11/2/2009 Colin "Oscar" P. says:

Does any of the other places you reviewed have your details? Maybe she knows someone who works at one of those places who looked up ''Sean C.'' for her?  Totally guessing...
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11/2/2009 Gerald "non sequitur" C. says:

There is something off about Ocean Ave. in general.
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I say it like Tyra Banks deciding which one of you pretty pussy boys packs up her pussy things and GOES HOME.

So pussy boys, I have one photo in my hand. WHO stays, the pussy boy who takes great photos but can't manage to keep his psycho stalker story straight or spell "the"?!

or the pussy boy that gives a really good editorial stalker murderer look, but can't charm the yelp judges i mean bitches?
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Colin "Oscar" P. says:

Does any of the other places you reviewed have your details? Maybe she knows someone who works at one of those places who looked up ''Sean C.'' for her?  Totally guessing...
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The only places that might have my details are the places where I get my car worked on but I just cant imagine them giving a stranger my personal information
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The real question is why did some here (Pam & s.) jump to the conclusion that he was making this whole thing up? Very bad judgement. I think you owe Sean an apology.
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This thread has infinite potential. We need to take this incident more seriously so we can empower ourselves to say incredulously imbecilic comments about the writer of the review, the owner of the business, and each other. We can do it.
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Sean, if you sent her an email she can find you.
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11/2/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

I'm still reluctant to believe it's true.  

I also think SillyGirl and Sean are in cahoots.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

I just flagged sillygirl's review.
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Lucky Lou "Demon Pixie" Y. says:

Maybe you should find out. From what I heard, this woman was bat shit crazy. I would seriously investigate on how she found where you lived.
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Yeah thats the scary part - I'm hoping to find out more when I go to the Sheriff's office today to have the restraining order filed on her
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has anyone else tried calling the store?

seems kind of strange that it's closed today, don't you think?
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11/2/2009 Colin "Oscar" P. says:

Sean C. said:
''...but I just cant imagine them giving a stranger my personal information.''

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If she knew someone there, then she wouldn't be a stranger to them- she might be a neighbour, or relative?  She might have cooked up a story about needing to contact you.
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Pam "Quadtastic" B. says:
I'm still reluctant to believe it's true.  
I also think SillyGirl and Sean are in cahoots.

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You know what, when someone claims they were stalked and beat as a result of a review you should give them the benefit. Just because you have a "feeling" about something doesn't negate common decency.
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I've remained quiet until now, but I agree with Bobby.  It sure has made me think twice about posting now.
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11/2/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

it's bullshit to put a business on blast and call for a boycott based on an unsubstantiated claim in fooking yelp talk and on a review. how about sean posts some screen shots of the supposed e-mails from the business owner? if i see those, i will say ok, i believe you. this kind of stuff absolutely takes away from yelp's credibility.
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wait, so how did she find the writers address?
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Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

You know what, when someone claims they were stalked and beat as a result of a review you should give them the benefit. Just because you have a "feeling" about something doesn't negate common decency.
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I wasn't "beat" by this woman - she tried to force her way into my house and I was quick to get her outside and lock the door. The scary part is not knowing if she had a weapon. if I was armed at the time she could have been shot!
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Bobby "I'm A Cracker" H. says:

You know what, when someone claims they were stalked and beat as a result of a review you should give them the benefit. Just because you have a "feeling" about something doesn't negate common decency.
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I wasn't "beat" by this woman - she tried to force her way into my house and I was quick to get her outside and lock the door. The scary part is not knowing if she had a weapon. if I was armed at the time she could have been shot!

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Ok, stalked and accosted
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I agree with Alan. If you want to start a boycott, please don't use Yelp as a delivery system for your boycott. Heck, I think it should be grounds for account closure. This is my opinion and in no way am I saying what the business owner did was justified or right.
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Why would a retard flag my review of Ocean Avenue Books? I said why I give them 1 star, and I refuse to do business with a store that provides crappy customer service. Sounds legit to me!

It's still creepy how a store owner found a Yelper. I think you guys who use your real photos are brave!
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11/2/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

Maybe she's a computer genius and tracked Sean down by IP address. Sells books by day, detective by night. Totally plausible.

Like I said before, I never really had a reason not to believe Sean and now that the store seems to be closed today, and another yelper said that this did actually happen...yikes.
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20 minutes ago Lucky Lou "Demon Pixie" Y. says:

Suge K. says:

has anyone else tried calling the store?

seems kind of strange that it's closed today, don't you think?
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Is that three business days or did the weekend count?    Just wanting to know how much time Sean has to put a safe-room in his house and get to the store for bread.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

: Maybe she's a computer genius and tracked Sean down by IP address.

She's Draysenator's Mom!!!!!
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sillygirl, i'm going to flag your review now just for your derogatory use of the word 'retard'. educate yourself. http://www.r-word.org/
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Store is open, or at least a female just answered when I called.   Glad I was using my co-workers cell when I told her I had the wrong number.  She can stalk them!
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Alan "Piston Honda" Y. says:

it's bullshit to put a business on blast and call for a boycott based on an unsubstantiated claim in fooking yelp talk and on a review. how about sean posts some screen shots of the supposed e-mails from the business owner? if i see those, i will say ok, i believe you. this kind of stuff absolutely takes away from yelp's credibility.

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Here is a link to the screenshots

http://www.flickr.com/...
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Silly Gurl I am going to flag your review for calling me brave.
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press star 67 if you call
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its hard to see them on Flickr - to to the umage and them click on "all sizes" and then select large
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11/2/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

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Sean C. says:

Alan "Piston Honda" Y. says:

it's bullshit to put a business on blast and call for a boycott based on an unsubstantiated claim in fooking yelp talk and on a review. how about sean posts some screen shots of the supposed e-mails from the business owner? if i see those, i will say ok, i believe you. this kind of stuff absolutely takes away from yelp's credibility.

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Here is a link to the screenshots

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well, she did say we laughed at her and made her cry and that does sound like us. That's just how we roll.

but, um, yeah, now this looks made up but well-thought out. I give you kudos for kreativity.
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Wow.  I like that she admits she is having personal problems.  That's kind of an understatement.
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This seems like your review was the straw the broke the camels back...
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Not like this is the first time one bad Yelp review reduced a business owner to tears:

http://www.youtube.com...
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11/2/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

even though you have photoshop open on your toolbar, i believe you.

get a peephole installed in your door. watch your back.
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

Even if the store is a dump and the owner a psycho, one-star pile-on reviews from people who have never actually patronized a business are really bullshit.
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mike, did you try calling the store?
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i agree with mike z. no need to start dumping 1 star reviews on this place.
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11/2/2009 Craig "Mr. Pinchy" N. says:

i am so happy to find out that nyc is not the craziest place on earth.  thank you sf.  thank you very much.
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

Yeah Suge. I posted about it above. No answer at about 11 AM.
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Alan "Piston Honda" Y. says:

even though you have photoshop open on your toolbar, i believe you.

get a peephole installed in your door. watch your back.
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Photoshop was open so I could create a new image to paste the screen shot to and then save it to disk
Will be looking into getting a peephole ASAP and meanwhile I'm carrying a firearm while in my house
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looks like Yelp pulled her response to my review
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yeah, i meant did you call again since apparently somebody is answering now.
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I'm still curious as to why two threads were started.
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where is the other thread?
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I'm still curious as to why two threads were started.
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I started this tread because she CAME TO MY HOUSE!

Then previous thread was me looking for advice on what to do about her sending me crazy PMs
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11/2/2009 Mike Z. says:

Here's the boycott thread:  

http://www.yelp.com/to...

No, I'm not calling again.  I'm getting bored.
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where is the other thread?
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http://www.yelp.com/to...
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Okay, so three threads total so far were started.

http://www.yelp.com/to...
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so now we have 3 threads on this topic.
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Here's the boycott thread:  

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How is that a "boycott thread", nothing in the title or first statement to suggest a boycott.
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11/2/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

this is better than kozy kar.
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11/2/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

well, except for the potential for real life violence and the mental illness part.
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Okay, so three threads total so far were started.

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Yeah, so what Pam
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Um, Bobby, did you miss the phrase "Boycott Ocean Avenue Books!!!!"  in the title of the thread?
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there was mental illness in the kozy kar thread.
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Yelp would totally suck without mental illness.
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Yelp probably would cease to exist without mental illness.
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"Um, Bobby, did you miss the phrase "Boycott Ocean Avenue Books!!!!"  in the title of the thread?"

i think he meant BESIDES that.
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Um, Bobby, did you miss the phrase "Boycott Ocean Avenue Books!!!!"  in the title of the thread?

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there was mental illness in the kozy kar thread.
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11/2/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

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Okay, so three threads total so far were started.

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While it would be unfortunate if this woman did come to his house and threaten him, as well as scary, screenshots could also be taken of these three threads which could potentially be used against Sean in the future.  

Contacting Yelp HQ and the police were the right way to go, now everything that is said on here could be misconstrued and possibly detrimental to Sean's future dealings with this woman.
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fuck.

there. pam, can THAT be misconstrued? detrimental to sean's future dealings? no? well  you said EVERYTHINK that is said on here could be.

fucking liar.
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11/2/2009 Jessica V. says:

Cliff notes please.
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Thömäs "\m/" F. says:

Perhaps you should stop going into her store drunk all of the time?
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Perhaps you gave her your full name or address when you were drunk in her store one time.

Bygones. We all do stupid shit when we're drunk.

By the way, If someone rings your bell and nobody is there except a a flaming paperbag, beware of the poop inside the bag.
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11/2/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

Sorry, Suge, my bad.
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cliff notes confusion
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jessica, don't trust cliff's notes. he's a drunk. like sean.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

: screenshots could also be taken of these three threads which could potentially be used against Sean

Is anybody really a big enough loser to do screen captures of Yelp Talk threads?

I mean other than that Verona chick.
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Yelp would totally suck without mental illness.
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I'm still confused why you haven't added "pussy boy" as your nickname?

A nickname like that will get you so much ass on yelp.
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I do screen captures of other screenshots just in case the evidence is lost or tampered with and I keep a journal of everyones comments that I deem peculiar because i am Kwazy.
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What's the over/under on the amount of posts this thread is going to get?
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Since the attacker was at the door, I'd recommend this instead:

http://www.youtube.com...
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the term  'bye-bye pussy boy" was used in movie America Sweethearts w/ John Cusack and Catherine Zeta-Jones.  Sorry for the trivia, but I knew I heard it before.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Quoting John Cusack movies eh?

Maybe she just wanted her $2.
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As far as the store being closed being proof that anything happened:

Would you come into work if this crap was being posted about you on a public forum?

it's true because another yelper says so? and the earth's middle is made of ass cream waiting to implode. no wait. THAT'S TRUE.
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: Would you come into work if this crap was being posted about you on a public forum?

Yes.  I would want to show that my business is in fact fine and this story is total BS.
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john, I would be a bit afeared myself, but I get your point. I just don't think her absence proves anything.
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I think those screenshots look fake. I get my share of psycho killer threats and they look nothing like those goofy messages.
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I think you mean libel, but whatever dumbass.
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can i  be sued for slander if i write that jessica is a whore, cliff is a drunk, mike is old, miles is creepy, and thomas is a pervert?

i thought the truth was defense against slander.
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Frankly I am surprised you got your ass kicked considering how big you are.  I am also a bit confused how you got your head out the front door to talk to this woman.  Are you holding your breath in that picture
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This seems an interesting story. Anyone know if there is a single lick of truth to it?
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can i  be sued for slander if i write that jessica is a whore, cliff is a drunk, mike is old, miles is creepy, and thomas is a pervert?

i thought the truth was defense against slander.
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Should have called SJPD. They would have beat her too.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Suge - You forgot "John H is an asshole".   My feelings are now hurt, so I'm gonna be showing up at your door tonight to attack you.
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11/2/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

this would be a pretty elaborate prank if it is.

first this sean c. account would have to have been made and yelped with for a while. march 2007 with 142 reviews. he would need to post his original yelp review 10/29, post his http://www.yelp.com/to... thread on 10/29, then re-post a follow up review on 11/1, then he would have to create a business owner account with ocean ave books and respond to his initial review from10/30 saying 'this guy is a drunk, etc etc.' then he would have to post this follow up thread saying 'diane g. tried to bash in my door'. then he would have to fake 5 screenshots from a diane g. account.

seems like an awful lot of work for a joke that isn't funny.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Wait a sec...

"Sean C"...."Sasha Baron Cohen"....see the similarity?
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sure, Alan. You must be in on it, too. I'm watching you.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

I wonder if Ray Brannan offers a body guard service as part of his "Yelp Help" business.
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Alan "Piston Honda" Y. says:

this would be a pretty elaborate prank if it is.

first this sean c. account would have to have been made and yelped with for a while. march 2007 with 142 reviews. he would need to post his original yelp review 10/29, post his http://www.yelp.com/to... thread on 10/29, then re-post a follow up review on 11/1, then he would have to create a business owner account with ocean ave books and respond to his initial review from10/30 saying 'this guy is a drunk, etc etc.' then he would have to post this follow up thread saying 'diane g. tried to bash in my door'. then he would have to fake 5 screenshots from a diane g. account.

seems like an awful lot of work for a joke that isn't funny.

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This is a similar to my train of thought last night after this thread was posted and I had interacted with Sean for a while.

We still have no right to lash out at the owner, but it seems that most of the info from Sean so far seems non-suspect.

I still say this is a matter for the police and courts, though.
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He hasn't called me back yet, and I'm not going to bug him about it. I doubt it's high on his priority list.
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11/2/2009 ruggy "damn you, admin!" j. says:

This sounds like a bad episode of Renegade circa 1992 on UPN or something.

Obviously, there's still a lot to discover about all this, but we're here to help Sean out in any way we can as it plays itself out. To answer a few questions I've received via Private Messages and email regarding this issue, I wanted to reiterate the following:

We take our privacy standards very seriously. In this particular incident, we certainly didn't provide any personal information about Sean (telephone numbers, home address, et al.), as none of those pieces of information are even available to us. There's no telling how this person may have unearthed Sean's place of residence, but rest assured, that information was in no way, shape or form, provided by Yelp.

We're all about creating a fun opportunity for the community to share local knowledge and help each other find cool local spots around the city. User reviews are clearly an important tool to make that happen, so if anyone has questions or concerns, please feel free to hit me up.

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11/2/2009 Suge K. says:

questions and concerns about THIS in particular? about yelp? or just in general. because i have a lot of unanswered questions and concerns about life in general.
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11/2/2009 Miles "Farmer Ted" F. says:

Why is Suge such a dick?
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just wow.
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

: please feel free to hit me up.

I think you mean "scream at me"
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why does miles try to pick up women on the BART despite the fact that he's married?
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11/2/2009 ruggy "damn you, admin!" j. says:

I'm available to answer any and all inquires about life, Yelp, or the small town of Joe, Montana (real town!)
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11/2/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

This sounds like a bad episode of Renegade circa 1992 on UPN or something. - LMFAO (clearly Yelp is taking this whole thing very seriously)
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11/2/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

what's the population of joe, montana?
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11/2/2009 s "in a NY state of mind" r. says:

I hope Sean is busy putting his new peep hole in his front door.

Also, yelp is not responsible/at fault for people being insane, whether these crazies be business owners or site users.
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11/2/2009 Mister U. says:

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11/2/2009 Cliff B. says:

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In 1993, the town of Ismay, Montana (population 22) changed it's name to Joe
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11/2/2009 Pam "Kiss My Donkey" B. says:

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11/2/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Cliff, Ruggy is awesome and he dressed up as a hot Asian chick for halloween.
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11/2/2009 Julia "Lolcats" C. says:

That's horrifying.  I'm so sorry it had to happen to you.
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11/2/2009 Mindy "Scooter Girl" L. says:

Maybe it's not Yelp that literally gave away your home address --     Possibly she followed you home when she saw you on the street... Or Maybe you have clues in your profile or other reviews that lead her to you, your social networking page, or your home page etc.
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ruggy "I heart Lorenzo Lamas" j. says:

This sounds like a bad episode of Renegade circa 1992 on UPN or something.

Obviously, there's still a lot to discover about all this, but we're here to help Sean out in any way we can as it plays itself out. To answer a few questions I've received via Private Messages and email regarding this issue, I wanted to reiterate the following:

We take our privacy standards very seriously. In this particular incident, we certainly didn't provide any personal information about Sean (telephone numbers, home address, et al.), as none of those pieces of information are even available to us. There's no telling how this person may have unearthed Sean's place of residence, but rest assured, that information was in no way, shape or form, provided by Yelp.

We're all about creating a fun opportunity for the community to share local knowledge and help each other find cool local spots around the city. User reviews are clearly an important tool to make that happen, so if anyone has questions or concerns, please feel free to hit me up.
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11/2/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Just "Just Jason" J. says:

You were scared for your life cause a girl was beating you up?  What a pu$$y. Hahaha
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11/2/2009 SillyGirl "Don't Go to Sean C.'s House" S. says:

Mindy "Scooter Girl" L. says:

Maybe it's not Yelp that literally gave away your home address --     Possibly she followed you home when she saw you on the street... Or Maybe you have clues in your profile or other reviews that lead her to you, your social networking page, or your home page etc.
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Yelp never has our home addresses when we register for an account, and since Sean doesn't have his real photo up, there's no way to know which of the 5,000 or so "Sean C."s on Facebook would be this one. My bet is that she PAID someone who knows his address. That's bribery....how could she have possibly known his home address? Someone had to have tipped her off.

She didn't follow him home because he wrote his review a day or two AFTER he went to the store. Someone needs to call Robert Stack, because this is an unsolved mystery!!
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Just "Just Jason" J. says:
You were scared for your life cause a girl was beating you up?  What a pu$$y. Hahaha

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The subject of violence against men by women is often snickered at. But the fact is a woman with a bat, gun, knife is just as dangerous as a man. And it's just as illegal. I have known guys who were scratched across their face, punched or hit  with bats and they are just supposed to take it.

We are taught not to hit a woman so we are at a great disadvantage. Thankfully police take this kind of thing more seriously then back in the 1990's when my GF held a loaded shotgun to my head.
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11/2/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Lola "Serendipitous" L. says:

I'm selling my old light saber it's in good condition still and has slayed many jedis
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11/2/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Lola Grievous
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11/2/2009 from Yelp for iPhone Justin "Joe G.'s avatar is 100% correct" N. says:

What I take away from this thread is if I ever encounter a sexy business owner the best course of action is to bash them in a review and they might come over?
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11/2/2009 klik "just putin that out there" w. says:

I'm not even in the city now so come om over and threaten me all you want hahaha
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11/2/2009 Dan A. says:

You stop slandering this place with this BS! They have the right to not do business with you, and you need to accept that and you can be sued for false accusations and online complaints against this place. There are many ways of tracing someone online.
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11/3/2009 Steve J. says:

Dan A. says:

You stop slandering this place with this BS!
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It's not slander if it was true
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11/3/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

OP, any update?
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K "you see somebody over here you know?" G. says:

OP, any update?
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Yesterday I got a temporary restraining order against her signed by the judge. The Sheriff's office will serve her with the papers today. I'm still waiting to get more information from the police report. I'm going to call the District Attorney's office today.
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11/3/2009 Lisa J. says:

Please post the pics of Ruggy dressed up as a hot asian chick asap!
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11/3/2009 Suge K. says:

ruggy, where should i watch the game tomorrow night if i want someplace mellow where i can go with a friend and get a seat at the bar?
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11/3/2009 Gina "Agent Of Chaos" M. says:

It made the news!

http://gawker.com/5396...
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11/3/2009 noel "cardioid" j. says:

OMG!
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11/3/2009 Suge K. says:

i don't know that gawker qualifies as 'the news'
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11/3/2009 Gina "Agent Of Chaos" M. says:

Suge, sorry it's not CNN ya snob
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11/3/2009 Suge K. says:

gina, my point is that a legitimate news source would have researched more than just a yelp talk thread. there was no mention of contacting the police for a statement or trying to verify the story or get the other side.

yelp drama made 'the news' - this story didn't.
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11/3/2009 Gina "Agent Of Chaos" M. says:

Point taken Suge. I wish it would be investigated further. I want to know the details like how she got his address.
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11/3/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Yes, but if Megan's Kozy Kar debacle made NBC, I'm sure this will too.  

And as soon as Eater SF gets word, I'm sure there will be a massive orgasm and Yelp hate-fest.
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11/3/2009 Angela P. says:

Wow I just read about this in gawker!   I hope it all works out
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11/3/2009 Suge K. says:

again, why hasn't any 'news' source contacted the police? tried to contact the store??

(sean, i don't say this to imply that you're not being truthful - i think you are - i just find it fascinating that these other websites simply report about drama on yelp)
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11/3/2009 Suge K. says:

p.s. why won't ruggy tell me where to watch the game?

i might as well have asked cliff....
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11/3/2009 Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Sean, perhaps when she called you PUSSY BOY, she was just complimenting your cunnilingus skills?
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11/3/2009 Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Sean, perhaps when she called you PUSSY BOY, she was just complimenting your cunnilingus skills?
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11/3/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

I guess you'll think twice before you get drunk and surly in someone's store again.
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Sean, my advice to you (if you want to get Yelpers behind you on this) is to get breast implants, take a picture of them, and post that as your profile picture. It worked for Megan and her crusade against Kozy Kar.

Well what do you know. You did it without the breast implants. Bravo.
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11/4/2009 Jeff "Neva go to a doctor whose office plants have died." B. says:

I call BS.  This guy seems over the top to me. His post reads Leave negative reviews...........so if you look at the owner in question they now have several 1 star reviews written by people who haven't visited (TOS anybody?)  and these reviews were left by people who maybe dont know the whole story  (not saying this incident at his house didn't happen......but would love to hear her full version)

He also wonders how She found his address but in his reviews he writes about moving into a neighborhood very close to this place in question. Ocean Avenue books is located at 1735 Ocean Avenue.........read his review for San Francisco Meats & Delicatessen where be talks about "I just moved into the neighborhood and needed a place to grab a sandwich before I go to work every Saturday."    This Deli was located at 1330 Ocean ave. He also has reviews for Lucky Ocean Donuts 1501 Ocean Ave  ...............Miracle Cleaners 1701 Ocean Avenue

Stevie Wonder could of found this guy. Sounds like a drama queen to me.
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11/4/2009 Will "Splurring" S. says:

This needs to be on the news...
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

it is on the news

http://www.nbcbayarea....
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11/4/2009 Will "Splurring" S. says:

thanks Alan...that's crazy
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11/4/2009 Suge K. says:

have there been any 'news' reports that seem balanced? with somebody doing minimal investigatory reporting? interviewing the police? the shopkeeper?
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11/4/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

I can't wait until the defendant's lawyer pops into one of these threads
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11/4/2009 Suge K. says:

(i'm not doubting sean's story, i'm just shocked that media outlets are calling this 'news'.)
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11/4/2009 Alice A. says:

Seriously the first review by Sean wasn't even THAT bad!  Talk about situation getting out of hand!
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

balanced news? no. most of the blog reports were very one sided, had no verification of facts and pulled info strictly out of the thread. the sfweekly blog looks like they did an actual interview with sean, as does the nbc news report. there's a shot of the police notice on the closed bookstore.

but if she was hemmed up on a 5150, she would just be getting released today. 72 hours for psychiatric holds.
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11/4/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

There is an awful lot of useful information is in all these threads for a defense attorney.
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11/4/2009 Umesh "yes I'm kinda creepy that way - but in a nice way" T. says:

Why do so many people use "of" instead of "have" ?

It's worse than "your/you're" and "there/their/they're" --- at least there is some similarity in spelling here.
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11/4/2009 Suge K. says:

KG, i doubt she's going to have a defense attorney. sounds like she's pretty broke.

and are there criminal charges?

or just a restraining order and a 5150 hold?

i really hope this woman gets some help.
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11/4/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

Suge, don't you think that after all these threads, the OP would press criminal charges?
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

it's probably ca pc 242 simple battery.

also in assault cases, it may not matter if the victim does not want to press charges. i'm not sure if misdemeanor offenses would be referred to the city's district attorney. the da's office could probably choose to prosecute her on their own if they wanted.
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11/4/2009 Ari "dork" C. says:

Suge K. says:

have there been any 'news' reports that seem balanced? with somebody doing minimal investigatory reporting? interviewing the police? the shopkeeper?
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I agree. Still waiting for a real, unbiased news coverage.
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11/4/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

Alan, you have either been on the right or wrong side of the law for quite some time.
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11/4/2009 Suge K. says:

" the da's office could probably choose to prosecute her on their own if they wanted"

i'm not trying to belittle what happened, but if our fucked up DA prosecuted THIS after not prosecuting so many crimes with horrendous outcomes........
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

no offense to anyone who thinks she's doing a bang-up-job, but kamala harris is a dumb breezy out only for her own political gain. i would not be shocked if they thought this was some major case.
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11/4/2009 Ryan T. says:

Here's the store-owner's side of things:

http://gawker.com/5397...

Disclaimer: I wrote the above post.

Sean C., would love to get in touch with you. I'm ryan@gawker.com.
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11/4/2009 Mike Z. says:

Hmmm, sleuthing his home address and then going there just to apologize?  I don't think I am buying that.
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11/4/2009 Marc "Turbo-Rad Guy" L. says:

She's definitely not hot, but she's not all that bad looking.  Was it at all sexy to wrestle with her on the stairs?  Did you at least try to cop a feel?
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11/4/2009 B.K. "Angry Whopper" W. says:

I like that she is photographed in front of a cluttered and disorganized shelf of books.
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

i must say, i wasn't impressed with the first gawker article which was just a cut and paste job of the original thread, but this one, well, you actually did some journalism with it. i believe she may have been trying to apologize to sean, given her statements in the article, however someone starts stalking you online, calls you pussyboy and your mama's a bitch, then shows up on your doorstep, well...i think that i'd probably have pushed her down the stairs too.

"No housecalls on this one, is what we're thinking.", that was your best line in the whole thing ryan.
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11/4/2009 Sus.annah "does interpretive dance" B. says:

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11/4/2009 Cliff B. says:

Ryan T. says:

Here's the store-owner's side of things:

http://gawker.com/5397...
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Hahahahahahhaha

the comments under the article are hilarious. I like the one that says she went to visit him with Fists of Peace.

but, um, yeah, her story sounds flimsy and made up.
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

comments from gawker:

"Geez. Things really haven't been working out for Tina Yothers these days"
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11/4/2009 Harry "I'm bored off my f'in arse" P. says:

Holy fuck! This gives me pause on leaving any 1 or 2 star reviews ever again. That lady could easily have had a gun and shot him. What a crazy bitch...
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11/4/2009 Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

"You know, if the price of being an anonymous and unaccountable internet asshole is the occasional unhinged loony bringing you to account for said assholery with their fists, maybe he'll think twice the next time he wants to savage someone from the safety of his keyboard"

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11/4/2009 Thömäs "The Grand Poobah" F. says:

Now that I've read her side of the story, it's clear to me that Sean tried to feel her up and she defended herself and Sean turned this around for his own benefit.
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11/4/2009 Eduardo "Wee-ow" F. says:

If this is true, at least Diane Goodman her Twinkie defense ready to go:

"The economy is driving me crazy!"

http://www.sfgate.com/...
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Ryan T. says:

Here's the store-owner's side of things:

http://gawker.com/5397...

Disclaimer: I wrote the above post.

Sean C., would love to get in touch with you. I'm ryan@gawker.com.
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I've emailed this guy 3 times now - no response - would love to give him the REAL story
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11/4/2009 Vanessa "feed me" F. says:

Um, yeah. She's a little off her rocker. Anyone in their right mind would realize it's creepy and stalkerish to go through someone's profile and google things to figure out where one lives. That had to have taken quite a bit of time and obsessiveness.

She couldn't have written him a letter and sent it to his house?

I'm also pretty sure she's not getting a 5 star for her "honesty."
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11/4/2009 Alan "Piston" Y. says:

sean, don't sweat the haters. given her insane e-mails, having her show up on your doorstep is an invitation for a punch in the face. some people are bent out of shape that the masses have descended and are dropping 1 star reviews on her mess of a shop. while, it seems possible that she really was trying to apologize, this certainly wasn't the way to go about doing it.

i'd bet, given the publicity, and the pro-book owner people on this thread, she's going to get MORE business than she would have normally received had this situation not happened. there's no such thing as bad publicity right?
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11/4/2009 Tom "Farts happen; GET OVER IT!!!" R. says:

Nice job beating up a woman asshole.
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11/4/2009 K "you're charging me with what?" G. says:

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11/4/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

Was that picture of her taken in her bookstore because damn, look at how messy....i mean neat, they look.
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11/4/2009 kristi "i wear flip flops in the rain" l. says:

and by "they" i meant the books...not "they" , the bookstore + her lol
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11/4/2009 Paul "need indian food" M. says:

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11/5/2009 James F. says:

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11/5/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Meh.  I liked Megan D drinking the jug of whiskey better.
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11/5/2009 Barbra K. says:

bored much?
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11/5/2009 Christopher "alone not lonely" L. says:

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11/5/2009 Megan "mama tried" D. says:

1 hour ago John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Meh.  I liked Megan D drinking the jug of whiskey better.
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It's RUM!!!
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11/5/2009 John "Mr Miscreant" H. says:

Sorry, I forgot Poland
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11/7/2009 Eduardo "Wee-ow" F. says:

Wow, reporter now spins the story as...

Yelp's fault!

http://gawker.com/5398...
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11/7/2009 Amanda L. says:

Bottom line, her going to his home is not acceptable.

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